I am terrified of flying and won't fly unless absolutely neccessary. Like a year ago,when my brother was burned so bad my mom and I had to fly to Va. I am 40 years old and cried like a baby when the plane took off, thank goodness my mommy was there holding my hand. It is mostly the taking off and landing part that is so scarey. Just hold your boyfriends hand and close your eyes and think happy thoughts.