It could also be a ph problem, but since this is a betta not a goldfish it probably is a fungus, bettas are more prone. Good luck with treatment. Don't blame your dad though, it was more likely bad timing. In four days the water shouldn't have gotton so bad as to develope a fungus, it was probably already in the process. Oh and you can go off for a week without feeding your fish, that's no problem, its better for keeping the water quality good and probably kept your fish from being worse off.
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