Hi, it's such a wonderful feeling to rescue a kitten. Almost two years ago, the people who lived up the street moved away, and left their cat. She was so scared, it was terrible. I started feeding her, at first she would take the food only after I left. I did not know at the time that she was pregant. In fact, I did not know about the kittens until she carried them to our barn. It took awhile, but we were able to catch the Mom, and all four of the kittens and have them all spayed, and one nutered. Right after the surgery two of the kittens were very calm and wanted to be close to us, those two stayed inside that very first night, and have never been out again. The Mom was calm and I was very tempted to keep her in, but the other two were really wild. I kept feeding and taking care of the remaining three outside. One day the male just followed me into the garage, and into the house, and he settled in too. The mom dissapeared for a few days, and we were really worried. She came back, but seemed ill. Took her to the Vet, who said she was just very run down. In came Mom that very day. With only one very scared female outside I did not know what to do. This one would not let me get close to her, but I was so worried and sick leaving her outside. It was like a miracle, another cat showed up. She was terrified and ran to me to be held. I could'nt belive it, she was in too. Now I have Teezie ( the mom ) Tippy ( the only boy ) and Bootsie, Callie, and Flower ( the scared last little kitty ). All five have been inside, living happy for over a year. Bootsie and Callie have been in for over a year and half, that is how long it took to develop their trust, and come inside. I never had a cat before, now I have five, and I don't know what I would do without them. As for the other cat that showed up and scared Flower inside. His name is Skiddy. He had a very badly hurt foot and was starving. He now lives a happy life with my Son. We were able to rescue six cats in all.
I do know one thing to pass on to you. It is very important to have your Dad spend alot of time with this kitty. Feral Cats develop a strong bond with the person taking care of them, and they don't pass the bond off very easy. They usually bond to their caretakers, and are never very comfortable around lots of people. I read this in a pamphlet given to me by my Vet. I have also found alot of really good information by just doing a online search for feral cats.
Good luck with your kitty. People tell me how lucky my cats are, but I am the lucky one. I can't tell you the amount of joy they have given me. Lois