In order for her to get the help she needs, she has to WANT it but I congratulate you on getting the family involved. Maybe one of them can say something to wake her up and get her out of denial. Both of my parents were acholics so I know how it effects the children.... even the grown ones. Being the child of acholics, the hardest lesson I had to learn was I could NOT fix someone elses life (I was the fixer) they have to fix their own life. I can tell you are a "fixer" too. You can not fixer her life for her. I do wish you luck in life and wish you well. Keep going to those meetings, they can and will help you understand your role in this and what you CAN do. Never give up on her though, someday she may wake up and listen to you.