Hi, QOP - I am away next week...but just out here in Cochrane.

You said you have got counselling for yourself, and I'm glad to hear that. I hope your hubby agrees to do the family counselling and hold up his end of the bargain.

I am sure you have checked - is there a stepfamily support group of some kind in Calgary? In addition to professional help, sometimes it is great to meet other people in the same boat. Just like some of the folks here, only you can do it in person!

GOOD LUCK!

hugs
Catty1