OK...

Maybe "I" should just keep my mouth shut BUT...

I've gone back to work and just couldn't get this out of my head. I am sorry but "NOBODY" should be putting out any "TERMS" to "GET BACK INTO THE FAMILY"!!! A family has to be "A FAMILY" through thick and thin. That is just not right. Again, we are only seeing/hearing/reading a brief glimpse into what you are going through and certainly do not know all the details, but hopefully "these terms" were not spelled out for you just as you have relayed them to us.

A MARRIAGE is a partnership. Nobody is or should be a DICTATOR. Hopefully after some cooling off "You and Your Husband" will be able to sit down and talk this through and AGREE on an appropraite plan or course of action for reconciliation "that meets EVERONE'S needs".

Good luck!!!