Awful news...

[Dorothy39]

So, there you have it. Your Cousin Rebecca can help comfort you during this transition!!! Look to the silver lining in every cloud my friend.



Change is so hard. But , I made it!!! You will too!!!!


Keep us posted!!!

[Logan]

Even as an adult, moving was a hard thing for me. At the age of 33, I made a 100 mile move with my 5 year old daughter. We moved away from her dad and away from my parents and friends.....it was hard, but necessary as it offered a better position for me, financialy, with my job. My daughter was too young to really understand what was happening, but you know what? We did ok. It took a long time for me to think of this as home. It was as if I had moved 2000 miles, rather than 100 miles, but we made it work.

I know you will miss you dad and your pup, but keep on making the effort to stay in touch with your dad, even if it is by phone most of the time. He will feel better and so will you. And your darling pup will be with you soon enough, hopefully.

I hope and pray that your mom is sensitive to how this move affects you and your relationship with your father. I worked, extra hard, to make sure that my daughter maintained as much contact with her dad as possible, all of these years. She is a well adjusted 15 1/2 year old girl now, with a healthy relationship with both of us, and with both of her steparents.

Logan

[Dorothy39]

That was a wonderful post!!!!!!!!!

[Almita]

I'm sorry i hope you can make it thorugh Salt Lake City is a wonderful place too with lots of beautiful buildings to see. I hope you can get your new house soon and be back with your adorable Sammy. Mayeb like some people said to find a public library and use the public computers? I hope you stick it trough.


[[[hugs]]]

[buttercup132]

Thats horrible. Maybe you can live with your dad until your mom gets a new house. Then you can stay with Sammy , your bunnies, and your pony for longer.You dont have school right now either so that probly wouldnt be a problem. That is really terrible.

[dab_20]

Thanks sooo much everyone. And thanks for that post Logan, at least I know other people are or have been in my position. I told my dad I'd try and call him every night. Plus if we both talk on our cell phones it's free.

buttercup, I woulden't be able to stay with my dad, because the court ruled custody of me with my mom... and well my mom wouldn't want me to stay behind. School would start before my mom and I got our house, also.