What to do with them?

[beeniesmom]

Okay, that probably sounds like I'm lying or something, but I'm not.

No, it doesn't sound like a lie to me.
I really do hope things get better.

[buttercup132]

I dont really see either how getting a new animal you cant afford is a treat for yourself.


And I DO know about your problems..

[beeniesmom]

And I DO know about your problems..

So do I, or I wouldn't have permitted myself to even respond.

[Roxyluvsme13]

Alicia you may know my problems, but why does that matter...? I may not be on PT after tomorrow for a while just to let everyone know..

[flamepony12]

I don't want to stir up any more trouble than there already is, but I'd just like to say something.

You can't afford better food for your animals, yet you still "rescue" bettas from pet stores, saying repeatedly that you can't even afford a decent sized tank for THEM. My advice would be to stop buying new animals and take care of the ones you have now.

Recieving a camera for your birthday (whether YOU buy it or not) may be a better gift to you, but think of your animals. If I were in that situation, I'd put the $500 aside to improve my dogs' lives, and I know that would be a present good enough for me.

I agree, large dogs can be fed smaller kibble if taught correctly. You can mix other little treats (such as egg, etc.) to get her started on it, or you can pause her every once in a while to keep her from "inhaling" it, as somone's mentioned already.

You also post this thread asking for help, and then said you wished for us to stay out of it. All I can say is that I hope things improve for you and you're able to spend your money on things more important than cameras, nintendos, and photoshop.

Remember, this post wasn't meant to bash you or anyone else, it was just an attempt to help.

Good Luck.

[slleipnir]

I only read the first 3 pages, so, forgive me if I missed something.

However, I am comfused. Raw isn't exactly cheap, from what I've been looking into. Why is it you can buy that, but not a better quality food? If she doesn't like raw, then there isn't much you can do about it. Don't feed it. However, she NEEDS to eat. If she likes kibble, great. Feed her kibble. You can buy half decent kibble for not that much. I believe Kay said a bag of Nutro is $25. I believe that food would last longer than $25 worth of raw? I don't feed my dogs raw, and they're healthy and happy.

As for betta. You said "there is nothing wrong with me wanting betta" You're right. There IS nothing wrong with wanting fish. However, you should look out for what you already have before spending your money on more pets. Think to yourself. "Do I really NEED fish? Sure, I want them, but do I NEED them?" The answer is no. You really don't NEED them. Instead of buying hamsters and fish "with your own money", buy dog food. You really have no right to complain about it when you don't seem to put the effort into solving the problem. As far as I can see, the problem can be easily fixed. Don't buy any more pets. Are you really doing it for them? "I need to rescue them". Or, are you doing it for yourself? I can say this, because I often said I wanted to save a pet, but in reality, I couldn't afford it, but I wanted it because *I* wanted it. Not because it needed saving. I've learned I can't have everything I want. I would LOVE another dog. But you know what? I don't have a big enough yard for them. I can't walk 3 dogs everyday. It isn't fair to the dog. I pay a lot for my cat food and dog food as is, another one would push me over my limit. Right now, I can afford good quality food for all my pets, plus, extra money for myself. However, pets are #1 on my list, so if I run out of money for myself, that's too bad.

As for your bday...yes, it would be hard to not get a present...if you need a camera, why not get a cheaper one, and spend the rest on your pets? That way, you both get something. You will feel good that you're helping your pets.

Please, just look at your situation. If you don't have the money WHY would you even THINK of getting more? I just can't imagen....I mean, heck, there are so many animals I want...I just have to wait till the time is right to get them. I've ALWAYS wanted a horse, but I refuse to board it. I'll have to wait till I get my own land. Could be many, many, many years.

Sorry, a lot of this doesn't make sense, I'm just ranting. Nothing personal. I mean nothing as a direct attack to you.

[flamepony12]

I only read the first 3 pages, so, forgive me if I missed something.

However, I am comfused. Raw isn't exactly cheap, from what I've been looking into. Why is it you can buy that, but not a better quality food? If she doesn't like raw, then there isn't much you can do about it. Don't feed it. However, she NEEDS to eat. If she likes kibble, great. Feed her kibble. You can buy half decent kibble for not that much. I believe Kay said a bag of Nutro is $25. I believe that food would last longer than $25 worth of raw? I don't feed my dogs raw, and they're healthy and happy.

As for betta. You said "there is nothing wrong with me wanting betta" You're right. There IS nothing wrong with wanting fish. However, you should look out for what you already have before spending your money on more pets. Think to yourself. "Do I really NEED fish? Sure, I want them, but do I NEED them?" The answer is no. You really don't NEED them. Instead of buying hamsters and fish "with your own money", buy dog food. You really have no right to complain about it when you don't seem to put the effort into solving the problem. As far as I can see, the problem can be easily fixed. Don't buy any more pets. Are you really doing it for them? "I need to rescue them". Or, are you doing it for yourself? I can say this, because I often said I wanted to save a pet, but in reality, I couldn't afford it, but I wanted it because *I* wanted it. Not because it needed saving. I've learned I can't have everything I want. I would LOVE another dog. But you know what? I don't have a big enough yard for them. I can't walk 3 dogs everyday. It isn't fair to the dog. I pay a lot for my cat food and dog food as is, another one would push me over my limit. Right now, I can afford good quality food for all my pets, plus, extra money for myself. However, pets are #1 on my list, so if I run out of money for myself, that's too bad.

As for your bday...yes, it would be hard to not get a present...if you need a camera, why not get a cheaper one, and spend the rest on your pets? That way, you both get something. You will feel good that you're helping your pets.

Please, just look at your situation. If you don't have the money WHY would you even THINK of getting more? I just can't imagen....I mean, heck, there are so many animals I want...I just have to wait till the time is right to get them. I've ALWAYS wanted a horse, but I refuse to board it. I'll have to wait till I get my own land. Could be many, many, many years.

Sorry, a lot of this doesn't make sense, I'm just ranting. Nothing personal. I mean nothing as a direct attack to you.

Very well put, Audrey.