Poor mama kitty. Is there any way you can take her in? Here's another link to a terrific (but fast moving) website http://www.handicappedpets.com/cgi-b...bbbs_config.pl where you can get a lot of support, and ideas for Fancy. At the very least, you may be able to find somebody willing to take her in. She sounds way too sweet to kill. I'm guessing by now her babies are eating? They sound old enough to try out wet food. With hesitant kittens (I rescue non-stop) I smoosh a bit of wet food in their mouth, and then gently guide their heads down to the food dish, and 9 times out of 10 they start nibbling.