ever been forgotten?

[Sevaede]

I have to agree with Vela. I'm willing to be it's a territorial and/or esteem/inferiority thing. She doesn't want another girl making moves on her man for one fear or another. She's pretty silly. I bet if you give it a bit of time she'll learn that you're awesome and have no intentions of "stealing" him away.

[slick]

It can also happen to mature adults.

A different scenerio, but I've been dumped by GFs finding BFs so many times I've lost count. In addition, I've also been dumped by couples, because the "wifey" thought that I was after the "hubby."

In fact, I've lowered by expectations for friends I have up here. If I expect nothing from them, I'll never be hurt. It's just that simple.

[lute]

thanks guys for the advice, i really hope he stays my friend.

[shihtzulover850]

once it was mostly because she went to a different school and made new friends her parents got a divorce she moved and that was it. I haven't seen her in 4 years. I am trying to find her address and write to her but I don't know if I can.

[finn's mom]

I've had that happen with a girlfriend. Not because she got a boyfriend, either. I'd known her and was close with her for eleven years. All of a sudden, she sent me a text message saying she was moving on with her life. Without me. That's the last I heard from her. No warning, no explanation. That was nearly two years ago. It happens to everyone at some point, in some way or another. It sucks every time. No matter how little time you've spent with the person, it is just about the crappiest thing someone can do. Obviously, it's worse when you have time and feelings invested. I'm sorry he's being that way. I've never been that way with boyfriends having female friends. There have been a couple of times I have had issues with girls, but, those were because they would do things that were inappropriate (and not just friendly behavior ). I hope things work out for you. But, things do happen for a reason. I know that sounds corny and cliche, but, I truly believe it.

[lute]

thanks.

finn's mom, i'm sorry about your friend ditching you like that.

[finn's mom]

thanks.

finn's mom, i'm sorry about your friend ditching you like that.

It's all right, I forgave her already. She's young, she did what she felt she had to. I've always thought we'd be all right again one day, although I'm not expecting it. And, you'll be fine one day, too...time really does heal wounds if you let it. Harboring hard feelings just ages you. Keep smiling, even if you're not feeling like it. Cuz eventually, you'll feel happy, too.

[jackie]

Yes, a very close friend of mine suddenly stopped calling, had her phone cut off and email closed.

We lived together in Spain, and when I moved to Cyprus she came for one summer.

She went back to Sweden, we kept in contact for about a year. She called me out of the blue and said she was engaged. After that she dropped off the face of the earth. I tried emailing her brother, but received no reponse.