Unfortunately, it's happened to me many a time. I have one best friend who sticks with me through thick and thin, and him and I are incredibly close and we'd never forget eachother. But, I have another "best friend" - her and I are extremely close, but we're almost exactly opposite. Political views and religious beliefs are opposite, but mostly, it's our morals. She drinks and majorly into partying, and she's "done" things with guys - I have NO problems with anyone doing these things, I just don't personally do them. But she assumes that because I won't drink, I can't be invited to parties. Or that if she invites certain people along for something, she can't invite me because I don't "match" them... well she doesn't either! So yes, I'm left out quite a bit. But everytime, she comes back saying "I just don't think you would've had fun", or the greatest "I didn't want to hear another no" - well, if she would've ASKED me, I might've said YES! UGHHHH. I hate being left out. It's time like those where I just roll my eyes, slam my fist on the desk, and then call my guy best friend and hang out. :P


I'm sorry you essentially lost your best friend. But as soon as the girl is gone, I'm sure he'll be back. How old are you? How old is he? I think it's petty when a girlfriend doesn't "allow" her boyfriend to have friends that just happen to be female.. it's so stupid.