Just a reminder for everyone ...

[jazzcat]

I don't think people mind if someone posts "cute pics!" to a thread they like. It's when there are 30 new threads, and someone goes down each of the 30 threads, and types "cute pics!" in every single one of them, identically, within a 3 minute period. It has no meaning, and seems to be done purely for post count.

When I was new here I felt like I needed to reply to everyone's posts to make friends and keep them, if you know what I mean. I didn't want to hurt anyone's feeling by making them think I ignored their posts. I finally realized I neither needed to do that nor could I keep up that pace. I truly wasn't trying to boost my post count I was just trying to be friendly. I'm going to give some of these new posters the benefit of the doubt that they are just thinking like I did at first. They'll soon figure it out or burn out which seems to be what happens.

T&P's Mom - I'll take a short reply from you any day!!!

[finn's mom]

When I was new here I felt like I needed to reply to everyone's posts to make friends and keep them, if you know what I mean. I didn't want to hurt anyone's feeling by making them think I ignored their posts.

T&P's Mom - I'll take a short reply from you any day!!!

That's what I was thinking, too! That maybe there are some people trying to boost their count, but, maybe there are people just trying to be super friendly (but, then, posting the same exact reply...heck, use a thesaurus if you must!... does seem a bit silly).

And, T&P's Mom, me, too!

[jazzcat]

but, then, posting the same exact reply...heck, use a thesaurus if you must!... does seem a bit silly).

Okay, I decided to do my part to help. I put in Cute at Thesaurus.com and got these entries:
adorable
adroit
beautiful
becoming
charming
dainty
deft
fetching
pretty
quaint
sharp
winning

Maybe this will liven up the generic posting, LOL! I'm just being silly today!

[finn's mom]

Okay, I decided to do my part to help. I put in Cute at Thesaurus.com and got these entries:

Maybe this will liven up the generic posting, LOL! I'm just being silly today!

how funny, i just did the same thing!

[Lizzie]

"Cute" is a problem too since it is read one way by people from the U.S. and another by those in England and probably Australia, etc. The first time my new mother-in-law told me I looked cute, I stormed off to my room and changed my clothes. I was 28, not 2. So, my reaction to "cute" is "yuck".

Which is all to say that I'm agreeing with others that we are a group of, often dramatically, different people with one thing in common that keeps us bonded together. I have to tell myself that posters who simply say something generic in response are being kind and sociable, and truly appreciate their response. Being me, I'd rather get one heartfelt response or none at all. I crave information, getting it and creating thoughtful responses, that's what I'm looking for here. That makes me a poor poster to many others on the forum because I won't simply respond to a thread to show that I read and appreciated it - sorry, but we must all be true to ourselves. Long live diversity!

[christa]

So I can't make smilies anymore?

Just kidding, LOL . . . seriously, this is a funny thread! Should we have a POST PATROL or something??? I've never heard such commotion and complaining about how people post and when they post and what they post. I have to laugh, I'm sorry. Sure, it's annoying to come on and see the same little threads day in and day out, but you know what? I realize that most of these threads have probably been started by 14 year olds and judging by the titles of the threads, I can see what they'll be and usually don't even click into them. Problem solved!

As for the responses, I have no problem with making my response short and sweet, nor do I mind getting a short & sweet response. What annoys me is when I go to the trouble of actually making a thread and getting no responses at all. THAT is annoying and a big reason why I don't start many threads. I try to make my responses as personal as possible, but how personal can you get on a message board? What kind of response do you expect? I guess in my case, over the past year or so, I have gradually just become more of a lurker . . . post only occasionally . . . Maybe that's what you want everyone to do? But if that's what everyone did, would this board be as successful as it's been in the past? It's booming constantly because people are constantly keeping it going . . . I guess I just don't see the harm.

[gini]

THE POST PATROL! Now that is funny! Yes, we definitely need one of those and an alarm can sound on your computer to alert you to the latest offender.

I have to laugh also, because you know that our Mayor hasn't missed a beat on this thread - but she is very silent. I imagine she is chuckling in the background.

Good night everyone - it's my bedtime.

[K9soul]

Should we have a POST PATROL or something??? I've never heard such commotion and complaining about how people post and when they post and what they post.

I don't think it's a commotion at all, it's a discussion (and I think a very civil one) with different viewpoints on this topic. I think it can be very relieving to people to be able to express their thoughts on things like this from time to time. It's like having friends/family that do little things that irritate you, and over time it becomes more and more irritating because you are keeping your thoughts in about it. When you finally sit down and are able to discuss it and see their perspective, it can be constructive and make both sides of the issue a bit more aware and understanding. I know I've felt more of an urge to visit and post here and there again since I was able to express some of the things that have been bothering me when I visited PT.

Most issues start out petty and small and become bigger, communication of differing perspectives can really help curtail growing resentments and misunderstandings.

Some things that bother me I'm sure would seem very silly to others, and some things that bother others I cannot relate to or understand either, but I think it's most considerate to listen and treat feelings seriously even if they may seem small or silly or petty. Just my 2 cents

[smokey the elder]

One poster's pointless thread is another's earth shaking event. I don't think it's fair to judge. One always has the option to not open the thread, after all.

As far as "trolls" are concerned, I believe there have been only a few over the last several years that are really bad, i.e. nearly universally offensive. Most of the time there may be some bored kids who, if given a chance, may actually stick around and learn something.

I've written before about the "one-dimensionality" of type (no vocal tone or body language). Especially for folks for whom English is a second (or later!) language, we should not judge grammar so much. I wish I could find that funky paragraph with all the letters jumbled up, to show how we read words!

One thing I would prefer is that people don't use texting shortcuts. These are very hard to read for those more "chronologically gifted" folks like me.

[K9soul]

Everyone's perspectives in this thread have been interesting and have made me think, as well as it has been nice to share my own. I'm glad people are posting their viewpoints and perspectives without it getting ugly or personal. It's always good to look at things from different angles.

[finn's mom]

Everyone's perspectives in this thread have been interesting and have made me think, as well as it has been nice to share my own. I'm glad people are posting their viewpoints and perspectives without it getting ugly or personal. It's always good to look at things from different angles.

This has been a great thread, very refreshing. I always like to hear your side, as you put it in a way that is mature and thoughtful. That's also refreshing!