I was 26, Stuart was 32. I comptemplated marriage once before Stuart when I was younger. I am so glad I didn't get married then. I got to do alot of things, go alot of places, meet people, finish 2 degrees, ect, ect, lots of things I couldn't have done or that would have been way more difficult if I was married. Now when I look at Stuart I know he was the right choice and I never wonder "what if" or "what would that be like?".

Worked out for the other man too--he's happily married now to a lovely lady and has three beautiful children.