Thank you all for your kind and heartfelt words!!! I just wish you ALL could have been there when I put the cheesecake down on the table. You would have thought I put down a steak!!! TOTAL CHAOS!!! Even Baby Hope Simone tried to get into the act!!! The Birthday Boys enjoyed their cheesecake, and so did the rest of the Clan. Barry and I sang Happy Birthday thru tears. It is so sad to see the Top Cat of the house in this condition, but the other cats still show their respect towards Ralph. I am sure they will all miss him...