I'm so sorry to hear about Snoopers. I'm so glad that he was able to be with you for 20 years though. Just remember the good memories that you had of him and he'll always be with you. Just remember that Daffy and Snoopers will be waiting for you so you'll be able to see them some day. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I also think that you should try to convince your husband into letting you get another cat.