Go! Move to be with him, and you WILL find a job. Even if it doesn't pay as much, being happy is worth more than the difference. Perhaps your job situation getting more difficult is just the push you need ... if not, we'll help push ...

Draker'll help pack - okay, probably not, but ...

(You asked for our opinion ...)

Congratulations to him, by the way, first in his class is no small deal!