In spite of me saying "no cat in bed" to begin with, I soon realized it was impossible and it is actually not as disturbing as I would have thought! Fister usually lay there (mostly on John)while watching TV or reading, but when I lay my head on the pillow, he's there within a minute, right next to me. But he usually only stays for about 20 min. purring his goodnight song. We can all accept that!