Sorry so harsh. However, therapy isn't an option right now. It's a dangerous situation instead with the need for protection NOT talking about "feelings" and deep psycological issues. That's for later AFTER something happens.
Yes this guy needs to go to jail. However, until he does something flat out illegal and she reports it, I am helpless. I just need to somehow let my friend know she is "Safe" to report the issue to someone. She's not alone.
So stop with the "drama queen" about me. This isn't about me. It's about being a friend to someone who is need of help and support who got themselves into a situation unknowingly. You can help give advice to people on this website about "drinking" and "Depression" but ya get judgemental when requesting help with a domestic violence situation like it's a Jerry Springer issue. That is where my "attitude" is coming from.