Help friend dating dangerous man

[MsLadyLyn]

Here, try this...

http://www.queendom.com/tests/minite...ama_queen.html

Went to that site and tried it. It was pretty cool.

[Scooby4]

Sorry so harsh. However, therapy isn't an option right now. It's a dangerous situation instead with the need for protection NOT talking about "feelings" and deep psycological issues. That's for later AFTER something happens.
Yes this guy needs to go to jail. However, until he does something flat out illegal and she reports it, I am helpless. I just need to somehow let my friend know she is "Safe" to report the issue to someone. She's not alone.
So stop with the "drama queen" about me. This isn't about me. It's about being a friend to someone who is need of help and support who got themselves into a situation unknowingly. You can help give advice to people on this website about "drinking" and "Depression" but ya get judgemental when requesting help with a domestic violence situation like it's a Jerry Springer issue. That is where my "attitude" is coming from.

[Vela]

Oh please, you post "Jerry Springer" stuff all the time. Nobody can offer advice in this situation because first off you never listen to the advice you get, and second off because it's for local authorities to deal with and nobody can help with a situation like this. If local authorities can't do anything, why do you think anyone here can? Tell her to get out of the situation, the end. If that doesn't work get the local authiorities involved, that's all that anyone can say or do.

[Cataholic]

Sometimes I forget when I read one drama, if the OP was the same author of some other drama....sure enough, Vela was right! Your life is WAY to Jerry Springer'esque for me. Never in my wildest dreams could I come close to addressing your (and those closest to you) issues.

[gemini9961]

Ditto Vela and Johanna.

[jackie]

I think you are insane and need to be less involved in other peoples lives.

Why does your life seem to revolve around drama?

[Scooby4]

So everyone here is saying that I am a "drama queen" for expressing my concerns about a friend? How dare I be past the superficial and really be there for a friend? Gee, what if this had been your mother or sister that they were dating this man? Would you not be on here asking what to do? Would you NOT be wanting help or advice because your mother is being potentially put into a hospital by a man?
What drama did I bring in asking this question I would like to know? I am the one being attacked here because I explained the situation in detail. Now I am the enemy because I am NOT willing to have my friends back?
I am proud that I am there for my friends and family. They know that I am NOT there for the "drama" but there for their hand to hold! I will heaven and earth when I know it has to be moved to help someone out.
Are you going to accuse me of being insane or a "Drama Queen" because I also volunteer and help out through Habitat for Humanity building houses for people with even more drama than an abusive man? I just recently helped build a house for someone who came over from Africa after winning the "lottery" for people to leave the country. Only a small amount of people are allowed to leave their country for a chance at the United States to live. The oppression, despair, and genocide that existed in his country is more "Drama" than any bar scene or church could ever hold.
So judge who you believe should be called "insane" and need "therapy" when one day that person may be there for you when you lose your house, a family member, a pet, or need help in any kind. Are you going to say that person is a "Drama queen" or "Drama Junkie" because they are willing to stand by your side and ask for help when they don't have all the answers? Remember Jesus? I do. He taught me that everyone is my brothers and sisters and you should love everyone. May God bless you and never need someone like me by your side. A Friend with "Drama" tolerance. Thank you.

[BOBS DAD]

I think you are insane and need to be less involved in other peoples lives.

Why does your life seem to revolve around drama?

ScoobyDoo,

I am glad that you give of yourself in such admirable and charitable ways. Good for you!!! I applaud you in that regard.

But surely, even you must see the incredulous and unbelievable flair for drama in your entries. I sometimes wonder if you are "for real" or are you just making this stuff up. They certainly generate a lot of controversy (remember your "dating" entries) and gets you a lot of attention. You should consider writing "romance novels". Spend a little bit more time developing your characters and add additional twists to the plots (not just the same tired theme of dangerous, stalking men) - maybe add an albino monk or something, and try to get published. Good luck.