SAS there is a good lesson in this for all of us and that is to check once, twice or even three times before we click *send.* Unfortunately my own sister-in-law learned this the hard way. Several years ago I received an e-mail from her and it was obvious that it wasn't meant for me. It could almost be considered x-rated and unfortunately it wasn't mean for her hubby at the time either. Shortly after she hit *send* she realized what she had done and called me crying and told me it was a joke. Of course I wasn't born yesterday and even I know that when you tell a joke it doesn't make you cry. It turns out that it was meant to go to a guy she worked with with whom she was having an affair. Apparently our names were next to each other in her address book. She said she was even thinking to herself *don't make a mistake and send this to Pam,* and that is exactly what she did. Update on her: She and my brother-in-law divorced a couple of years later and she didn't even wind up with the guy who was the object of the steamy e-mail.