Oh SAS, I have done that very thing, and it is a terrible, terrible feeling. I very rarely commit such thoughts to email, purely because of how traceable digital messages are, but there was one day I sounded off about a co-worker who was getting on my very last nerve, and then sent it to her by mistake! I had to fly through to her desk and got there roughly the same time as the email. Some very quick thinking was required, but I did get out of it.
I think you are doing the best thing by just engaging with him for a while.





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Unfortunately my own sister-in-law learned this the hard way. Several years ago I received an e-mail from her and it was obvious that it wasn't meant for me. It could almost be considered x-rated and unfortunately it wasn't mean for her hubby at the time either. Shortly after she hit *send* she realized what she had done and called me crying and told me it was a joke. Of course I wasn't born yesterday and even I know that when you tell a joke it doesn't make you cry.
It turns out that it was meant to go to a guy she worked with with whom she was having an affair. Apparently our names were next to each other in her address book. She said she was even thinking to herself *don't make a mistake and send this to Pam,* and that is exactly what she did.
Update on her: She and my brother-in-law divorced a couple of years later and she didn't even wind up with the guy who was the object of the steamy e-mail.

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