Quote Originally Posted by bckrazy
What if you compromised and got an older puppy from rescue?

There are tons of cute, friendly puppies in rescue just waiting for homes (look at Fozzie if you don't believe me). You could look for a pup around 6 months old, to guage their personality more, and they would be big/mature enough not to be too overwhelmed by Molly. A huge number of pups around 4-6 months are in rescues everywhere! It would most likely be easier for her to adjust to a younger pup. It sounds like a laid back, submissive male would fit her best.

On the other hand, what is best for YOU? Do you have the time/energy necessary for a puppy? Do you have the time to crate/house train, supervise, socialize, and take a pup to several courses of Obedience class? If you don't spend a lot of time at home, you don't want accidents inside, or you don't want to invest in many training courses, an adult would be best.
agreed