It's gonna be a summer baby, will only need diapers and t-shirts for a while anyway! My eldest cousin was told her baby was a boy, all her friends gave her all blue stuff, and Jessica turned out as girly a girl as could be!

I think at this point, there's nothing you can do - that baby already is a boy or a girl, ain't a nothin' you do gonna change that!

And, by the way, if people ask "Do you know what you're having?" Ashley can always use my sister's answer ... "Well, I HOPE it's a baby - I'm pretty sure!"

(Sister wanted to be surprised at the end of her ordeal, so didn't ask the gender for either pregnancy. She ended up with a boy, and, 8 years later, a girl.)