I think you're also right wolf... I need to find a behaviorist for him first. Get his peein inside under control, the rest can be done later.

That's the thing that gets to me and hubby the most. There are other solutions that have been working for the other parts of his behavior.

I really do love him. And my heart just melts everytime he jumps in my lap.

And maybe just take some time to distinguish between wanting to play, or needing to potty. lol

He needed to potty so I let him out. I watched him from the window. And I was voice praising him while he was doing it. And when he came back in I acted like a party and he was sooo happy. He put his chest down and his butt in the air. and was hoppin around.