I been keeping a secrete

[smokey the elder]

I think they'll be better off, especially since someone they know is taking care of them.

[Kirsten]

I also think it's a better choice. They will feel much better in their familiar environment, and their times without you will be less stressful.

But I agree, someone should come and look for them at least twice a day. I had it arranged like that when I had to go to hospital 2 years ago.

Kirsten