I'm moved, less 2 furkids

[neko1]

I forgot to add that Neko and Tama have adjusted wonderfully to my mom's place!!

I have never ever seen Tama so friendly before!! (I think it's because Brian treated Tama VERY poorly and I think that Tama knows that he's now in a place where Brian can't be mean to him anymore)

My mom bought some of Neko's favorite toys (I'm amazed she remembered what he likes!!) He's been running around the house playing

They're using their new litterboxes faithfully, and although they aren't eating as much as they used to (I guess due to the stress), they are still eating.

Tama loves sitting on my mom's lap at night and also loves sitting on her recliner when she's not there. He's also taken quite a shine to Hector which is surprising because Tama usually does not like men.

[Tubby & Peanut's Mom]

I'm glad to hear things are going so well, and hope they continue that way.

[Karen]

Glad things are going well, I know you must be mising your other two, but at least you know they will be loved.

[Laura's Babies]

It is good to hear you are letting go of the old and looking forward and moving forwards with your life.. I was one that never looked back.. life is to short to keep looking back and if you are to busy looking back, you miss what is ahead! GOOD for you!

[moosmom]

This is a sign of a new beginning for you, sweetie!! There will be tears, as there always is. But things will get better and your outlook will definitely put a smile on your beautiful face!

((((((((HUGS)))))))))) to you!

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

He's also taken quite a shine to Hector which is surprising because Tama usually does not like men.

That doesn't surprise me at all! Animals do feel if they are wanted or not!! Our Zazou is very scared everytime she sees a visitor; but as soon as she realizes that this person is truly a cat-lover, she changes 100%!!
I had a similar experience a while ago with the cat of an old friend! My friend warned me: "Nonody can get near him, he is scared to death!" . Guess what.... . I kept talking to him, getting closer all the time( he was inside the dryer); And..... 5 minutes later, I was petting him, one minute later he even allowed me to pick him up!!!! Oh my, my friend couldn't believe her own eyes!!

Lots of hugs to you and your kitties! AND to your mom, for welcoming you in her home!!

[jenluckenbach]

Sounds like everything is going well (except for the loss of custody of the 2 furkids) but I suppose Brian deserves to have them as he loves them too.

Continued success to you.

[slick]

Michelle, I meant to answer sooner but W-O-R-K keeps getting in the way so I'm sneaking on here for a minute. In 1987 I split with my then BF after 13 years. I had to leave my two cats (Casper and OJ) with him and he promised to look after them. Unfortunately he lied and well...that's so long ago and I'm sure they are both at the RB by now. Point is, I know how hard it is to move and leave furkids behind. The first few weeks of my new single life was the hardest thing I've ever had to do.

Your situation is different because it sounds like Brian really loves them and you can take comfort in knowing that they will be well looked after. Now is the time for you to concentrate on you. There is a new life ahead of you just waiting for you catch up with, and I'm so glad that Hector is there to help you along.

Good luck Michelle and please post some pictures of Tama and Neko when you have a chance.

{{{hugs}}}
slick xo

[Russian Blue]

It's so good to hear from you Michelle. It's also nice to hear that Tama is doing so well in the new home.

There's always an adjustment period but life has a way to work itself out for the better.