Thanks for the link, He has been complaining about chest pains but its the same story he wont go to the doctors.. Hes very fit and healthy hes recently lost alot of weight but on a steady diet and goes to the gym 3 times a week so I dont think that has anything to do with the chest pains, also the gland is only swollen in one place its under his jaw as far as I know but I dont think he would tell me if it was swollen elsewhere because I worry too much apparently! I dont know maybe I do I just dont want him getting ill if it can be avoided


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OK i just got told hes had it for a few weeks now.. Hes definatly got to get checked out hasnt he? Someone let me know if im over reacting because I dnt want to sound pushy and overreacting if I am but surely after a few weeks something must be up? I can see this causing some arguements