I think it's over.

[Cataholic]

The way people act is a reflection on THEM, not on you. I remember breaking up with someone, and having all these people say, "you are young, you will find someone else, you deserve better...blah blah blah" and thinking, "you guys have no idea what you are talking about. I liked him so much, blah blah blah".

People say these things because they DO know better, or more, or have more experience. I know you hurt, who wouldn't? He really treated you poorly, and that hurts! It should hurt, as it shows YOU have feelings. He apparently was lacking in them, along with class, taste and compassion.

As hard as it is, move on fast, act like you don't care. Soon enough, the acting will seem real, and the next thing you know, you will be fine!!! And smarter for the experience. I don't imagine you would let your next boyfriend treat you so poorly, would you?

Good luck.

[gini]

You are getting such good advice here and compassion.

I want to add just one thing HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH!

Thank goodness you found out what a jerk he is so soon.
Lead your life by YOUR standards - not his.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I'm sorry- breaking up isn't easy, even if the relationship isn't going the best. Spend some extra time with your pets (that always cheers me up) and buy yourself a gift! You didn't do anything wrong at all, and I'm sure you'll find someone else when you least expect it!

[G535]

He's not worth it, there has to be someone much better out there for you.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Something is wrong with him. He won't talk to me about it, but I know something is bothering him. *sigh* I wish he would tell me. I feel bad.

[buttercup132]

Boys!!! Half the time I dont understand them! One minute they will make you the happiest person ever , you think god what would I do without you, they make you feel so special and your just so in lopve you cant explain it. The next minute you will be in tears because they are being dumb jerks and make you feel like you worthless. They are so confusing. And just when you think you understand one they dump you for another girl

Sorry you have to go through this I kinda know how your feeling.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

He wants to hang out with me tonight. He is highly unreliable, so I'm assuming the plans will fall through, like they usually do. He just wants to "hang out" somewhere quiet... if you get the hint.

I want to hang out with him SO bad... he is really fun to be around and we have a great time when we're together. The thing is, I KNOW that if I hang out with him I'm going to fall for him even harder. I'm so scared. I want to hang out with him but I'm so sick of falling for him.

*sigh* Boys, eh?