Are you depressed? Are you needy? Questions best left to those that know you well, I suppose. I did want to comment on one aspect of your vent.

I like people. Men, women, those whose genders are not immediately known... I like them. I always look askance at someone (and, it is usually a female...) that shuts out 50% of the human race, for, IMO, no good reason. Too much of a tomboy? Whatever does that mean? I played competitive sports my entire life, well, up until I graduated college. I had more cleats and sports apparel than I did make-up and dolls. I could out squat most of my male friends, and I benched my weight, easily. But, somehow, that never seemed to equate to not having female friends.

I have found, hands down, when things get tough, my woman friends have been my rocks.

My advice? Stop looking to one person (man, woman or child) to be everything to you, and cultivate friendships. That way, when things get lonely in one area (which is probably a temporary thing, anyhow), you don't get all stressed out, and bogged down by it. You have others to lift your spirits.

Just my humble opinion.