Ours don't match either .. I never thought it was supposed to Probably a personal preference .. But either way yours looks wonderful ! And the other topic about "replacing" them -- I perfectly understand how your hubby needs to "resize" due to his finger resizing lol .. my hubby has had to do the same I have had mine 13 years now and while it still fits I want to upgrade it .. It is 24k gold but I have lost my feeling for the design of the ring and want to change to white gold or platinum, but I'll take all the original diamonds with and put it in the new ring - there's 7 diamonds so it'll be interesting to re-design that Congrats on your new ring !!!!