Oh, my! I thought I was seeing a picture of my gray tabby Macy who is also nine years old and a shelter rescue! Jasmine, you are so beautiful with your soft gray fur and bright eyes. You sound like a very lovey girl who craves love and attention from your family. And you do deserve all the love and attention you get because you are such a great cat! Keep working on Tubby and maybe one day he will be more receptive to your kindness. Jasmine, I hope you have many more years of health and happiness with the family who loves you so much.