Well said Vela, I feel the same way. If you are pregnant, child support is money for the baby, and baby deserves that money. Even if you didn't really need the money from him, you could set up a college account or something like that for the baby.

I am getting way ahead of myself though. You don't know if you are pregnant yet, so don't even worry about what to do if you are at this point, just concentrate on finding out whether or not you are pregnant. We'll get you through this, we can help