We had my Neice's babyshower this past weekend. I would say the Mom-To-Be should arrive 30 minutes after all the guests are there. You know you'll get late arrivals but they're usually there 15-20 minutes after the start of the shower.

We did 3 "games"....one was guess how many jelly beans were in a bowl, the second "game" was look under your plate...whoevever had writing on the bottom won a gift and the third "game" was a bust...a diaper bag was left out with baby items. After awhile, they were taken away and everybody had to write down what items were there. Ugh...that game was a bad mistake. I knew there was a reason I didn't like my Neice's husbands, sisters...and that game just confirmed those feelings.

It's kind of hard to have a surprise baby shower - most Mom-To-Be's know it's coming.

But have fun!!!