It is very sad My cousin, for example, is 22 years old...dropped out of highschool her freshmen year, is currently unemployed, struggling to make rent every month, is single and on top of that has kids. She knew very well what she was doing and in that respect I don't feel bad for her, but you'd think she'd learn after having one? Nope! She JUST had her THIRD child...oldest just turned four not too long ago, she has a two year old and now a newborn (all boys too!). She complains constantly and has no life anylonger, besides caring for the boys. Just watching her struggle is enough to make me NEVER want to go through that!