Bad news for Ralph Syracuse

[Barbara]

Sandra, I am so very sorry.
I must admit however that I would look at things in the same way. I would never put a 14 year old kitty through that much surgery and bloodwork and chemo as I believe a cat is ready to go when it is time- it is just us who are not ready

I hope that Ralph's remaining time is happy and painless- he will love you for that.

{{{{{Hugs}}}}}

[Killearn Kitties]

Oh Sandra, I'm so sorry that the news about Ralph isn't better. I know that his remaining time will be as happy and comfortable as you can possibly make it.

One day, you must tell us more about Ralph, his Cape Cod trips and his therapy honours, for example. He sounds such a character.

Lots of hugs.

[TopCat3]

Sandra, I am so very sorry.
I must admit however that I would look at things in the same way. I would never put a 14 year old kitty through that much surgery and bloodwork and chemo as I believe a cat is ready to go when it is time- it is just us who are not ready

I hope that Ralph's remaining time is happy and painless- he will love you for that.

{{{{{Hugs}}}}}

Barbara, these are such wise words "I believe a cat is ready to go when it is time- it is just us who are not ready"
Thank you so much.

I am trying to make myself ready too. I don't wish to hi-jack Sandra's thread about Ralph, but she knows, because we are in contact, off here, that I am going through very similar with Cleo who is now on twice weekly fluids. It is all just palliative care, I know there cannot be too long to go and it is very, very hard and I have been unable to share this openly because I am so devastated.

Now back to Ralphie, I too believe this is the best and kindest choice to make to preserve his comfort and dignity. It is interesting how the other cats are respecting what he is going through. They just "know", don't they? it's happening in my house too. I have got to know Ralph well and seen many photos of him and I really feel for what he is going through and for his beloved guardians Sandra and Barry and my heart goes out to them, what's left of it anyway, as it is all in pieces at the moment, anyway Sandra Barry and Ralph and the rest of the Clan make what use you can of these pieces and know they are sent with much understanding because I am going through a similar thing and I still can't believe it either.

Sandra has asked me to post a photo for everyone to see the Clan on holiday at Cape Cod - something about resizing the picture it's just easier if I do it for her so here goes...

I've also put a couple of others in so we can celebrate Ralph's "character" and his life. For the good times...

[Catty1]

I LOVE that face, and the paw on the edge of the box!

I just had a PM from Sandra, and she said she was posting here shortly...I don't even really know Ralph, and my heart is breaking for him! Just look at that face!

Be comfortable and at peace, Ralph....when the time comes, maybe the vet will come to your house so you will feel at home...

I just want a miracle here so much!

Catty1

[kb2yjx]

TopCat!!! Thanks so much for posting ALL the photos!!! Yes, that is Ralph on vacation on Cape Cod in 2003. He is with Spunky(gray cat), Raven, and I think Norton. Where the rest of the Clan was at the time, I have no idea!!Perhaps in other windows!!! The Sisters at the Monastery refer to Ralph as the OPW(the Offical Pope Watcher)from his glued to the TV and computer when the Pope is on!! And, the HIS box photo!!!This is how we want to remember Ralph, Ralph the nut, Ralph the itty bitty kitty, and just Ralph!!
It was a bad evening yesterday and early afternoon. He vomited so badly!! I had given him fluids this afternoon, then he vomited. Ralph(so far)has kept down his supper. He is looking so thin, his hip bones are sticking out. But, the purr machine keeps going. I cannot even begin to think how he would do with all the needles and the chemo. Except for the vomiting, Ralph is fairly comfortable and that is how it will be. Thank you again for all the support and words. At the Easter Vigil at the Monastery at 11pm, you all will be remembered in our prayers....