Hannah gets more attention because she demands it! Despite being 10 years old, she is far more likely to engage in play and activities that get me up and out of my chair or to tell her to stop barking. Tucker is far more laid back and isn't given to do much playing unless I'm willing to get on the floor to make the stuffies *come alive* for him. Both dogs get an equal amount of lap time because they both *pile on*. At night, Tucker is the one who sleeps slapped up next to me in the Big Bed so he makes up for whatever he has lacked during the day. Tucker gets more grooming because he doesn't *fight it* like Hannah does. In the end it really evens out.