I would rather do the barbeque thing as Happy and Misty are comming and while Misty is fine at a dog park, it will be stressfull enugh on Happy as it is, unless she stayed behind and Jordens, but I cant leave her home as its hard enugh on her that I am even working all the time, my mom said that Happy goes outside and sits at the gate refusing to come in till I get home but as an advanced warning she will have to be introduced to the other dogs at the meeting one by one, she is fine once she knows them, but random people at a dogpark aint gonna see it that way lol