I think you are a wonderful momto the kids and I think now all in the house will realize what a great one you are. I didn't mean any thing negitive with my other post. I do seem to remember some confustion your right. We do all know that you do think of them as yours. Nothing wrong at all about that DNA is over rated. I have an adopted brother and hes my brother none of us even see that hes an native american with his dark skin and our pale white scottish skin.