As long as she is able to get around, having no wrists is no big deal. Kitties do not see themselves as handicapped or different. Queenscoopalot has a kitty (or several) with the twisted legs.

As my siggy says "Handicapped kitties just leave bigger imprints on your heart". I have a handicapped girl and I can tell you, the reason these kitties are born is to teach us things about unconditional love and determination!