I am in a TOTAL state of shock right now...

**Craftlady** · 03-17-2006, 04:56 PM

That women is a piece of work.
I'd send a letter to the owner/editor of newspaper telling him/her what happened and this is how the newspaper/employees are treating people who work there at the paper.

**moosmom** · 03-17-2006, 05:15 PM

Craftlady,

It wouldn't do any good because they explicitly told me that the paper could let me go at anytime during my 90 day probation period or I could leave at anytime.

Lizbud,

Thanks. I really like that and have printed it out.

Doors??? I'm tired of doors getting slammed in my face!!

This REALLY sucks!!!! I feel an anxiety attack coming on again.

**Jadapit** · 03-17-2006, 05:28 PM

Originally Posted by moosmom

Craftlady,

It wouldn't do any good because they explicitly told me that the paper could let me go at anytime during my 90 day probation period or I could leave at anytime.

Lizbud,

Thanks. I really like that and have printed it out.

Doors??? I'm tired of doors getting slammed in my face!!

This REALLY sucks!!!! I feel an anxiety attack coming on again.

*Breathe* If it were me, I would be in tears. When we get older life is supposed to get easier, not harder. I cant get you off my mind, please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Do you and the fur kids have food?

**kuhio98** · 03-17-2006, 05:20 PM

Well Donna ~ I don't know for sure (and I don't have a crystal ball) but here's my take. This has nothing to do with your performance. She had someone else in mind for the position before you got there. They weren't available or her choice was vetoed. Now that person is available (or she twisted some arms) so they are in.

I would call her supervisor and request an exit interview. Tell them how much you enjoyed it and would like their feedback. A few months from now, your phone will ring. The person or persons they have put in that job will not have worked out because of this lady's "twisted" attitude. They will remember how professional you were call you up.

Even if they don't grant you an exit interview. Follow up with a letter to that lady's boss and thank them for the opportunity. Say, that you enjoyed working for them and are disappointed that you weren't the right fit.

Then go on with your life. Be positive. Who knows what the next exciting opportunity will be?

**lizbud** · 03-17-2006, 05:23 PM

Donna,
I edited my post to add the title. I do hope it helps some. I know
it does me. Hang in there.

**Alysser** · 03-17-2006, 08:17 PM

What a total JERK! I'm so sorry you were fired and Im sorry your life is so diffcult right now. Prayers on the way

**moosmom** · 03-17-2006, 08:28 PM

Jadapit,

Me and my furkids will be fine. I went out and bought a huge bag of IAMS and cat litter, so I'm all set. Thank you so much for caring! If you guys have any coupons for IAMS dry food that they can spare, I'd REALLY appreciate it!!!!

**catnapper** · 03-17-2006, 08:50 PM

MY God, Donna I am shocked myself. What can we do to help?

All I can offer at the moment are virtual (((HUGS)))

**moosmom** · 03-17-2006, 09:33 PM

Catnapper,

I'll be fine. I've survived MUCH more than this stupid setback. I appreciate your virtual hugs. They mean alot.

My cats are fine and will ALWAYS be okay. They'll eat before I do. Like I said, if you find ANY coupons for IAMS dry cat food, I'd appreciate it.

**moosmom** · 03-17-2006, 06:40 PM

I plan on going over there on Monday to turn in my ID and to talk to them. I KNOW it has nothing to do with my performance because I wasn't there long enough to perform ANYTHING. She did it all. It's not about age discrimination either, because she's my age.

So, I'm back to square one. I've already notified the temp agency that I'm available and will start job hunting first thing Monday.

Thanks for being there guys. Your compassion and understanding never ceases to amaze me!!

**Laura's Babies** · 03-17-2006, 07:21 PM

Gee whiz Donna! Life sure is throwing a lot at you these days! You will get paid for the days you worked, right? I think you have the right to demand any salary owed you on the spot....

Remember when CCL thought the bottom had fell out of her life, I think she lost her job and her husband then lost his. You remember how worried she was about feeding her brats and paying the bills..... We kept telling her to have faith, there was a devine plan for her and she just had to hang in there until God was ready to show it to her? Remember what happened? She ended up getting her dream job! (now we never see her anymore...

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Put your faith back in HIM and trust in HIM... HE WILL take care of you. Tie that knot in the end of that rope and hang on.. DON'T give up!

**cyber-sibes** · 03-17-2006, 11:33 PM

Well that sucks.

But Donna, don't blame HP. You're just being moved into something better. It may take a while, and not easy to understand how or why, but everything's in Divine order. God didn't get you this far to drop you now.

(((((hugs)))))