A question for you experienced moms (and dads). . .

[Ally Cat's Mommy]

It is TOTALLY normal to be worried about it. The latest wisdom (which has changed from last time I had babies in the house) is:
Put baby to sleep on his / her back
Place baby "foot-to-foot" ie at the bottom of the cot, so he / she can't wriggle down under the covers
Ensure good ventilation and safetly by not having any cot bumpers / stuffed toys etc in the cot
No pillows or duvets for the first year
Avoid smoking around the baby - some even take it to the level that smokers should change clothes before holding the baby

If you know you are doing all you can, and are STILL anxious, there are baby monitors available which sound an alarm after 20 seconds without moving (they are sensitive enough to pick up the baby breathing).

((((HUGS))))

[Lobodeb]

Put baby to sleep on his / her back

So what happens now that he's learning to turn over? How do I keep him on his back?

[Maresche]

If he is strong enough to turn himself over, he is strong enough to pick up his head if he has trouble breathing and even cry. Keep a monitor in his room and a reciever with you so you can hear him if he does get into trouble and try to relax the best you can.

I felt the same way with Mimi until she was 6+ months. By then she was pulling herself into a sitting position and I knew for sure she could let us know if she were in trouble.

[Samantha Puppy]

I don't know, maybe there's something wrong with me but I have never really worried about SIDS. And Aidan has a crib bumper. And I put at least 2 blankets over him every night. When his nose is really stuffy (like last week), I even prop him up to help him drain it/breath a little easier. I worry more about his health and development than anything.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Yes it is normal to worry. Ally Cat's Mommy has posted some great advice and now he is starting to turn over he will sleep in the position that is best for him. Trust your instincts and you can't go far wrong

[Corinna]

At 24 and 22 I still check on the kids (not bed check on 24 shes pregnat and married) but I still do the 22 year old (drives him nuts he could move out!!)
The monitor is the best idea.

[caseysmom]

Welcome to motherhood! If I knew all the worry involved I don't know if I would do it again...seriously...I guess its mother natures way but I get sick of worrying about everything all the time.

[lizbud]

If he is strong enough to turn himself over, he is strong enough to pick up his head if he has trouble breathing and even cry. Keep a monitor in his room and a reciever with you so you can hear him if he does get into trouble and try to relax the best you can.

I felt the same way with Mimi until she was 6+ months. By then she was pulling herself into a sitting position and I knew for sure she could let us know if she were in trouble.

This is how I thought too. It's best not to let the fear comsume you
as it wears you out & doesn't help the baby at all.I'd talk to the baby's
Doctor to see if he/she could help you find ways to help overcome it.

Gentle hugs to the little guy.

[Jods]

I'm like you too, I wake up all night to check on her... This is a really fun forum you can join to share your worries with other moms I do...
http://www.yabbers.com/phpbb/index.p...73b16498309384

[Lobodeb]

Thanks, everyone for your kind words and encouragement.

When I was going for non stress testing, one of the nurses used to always tell me to enjoy my time before the baby was born because once that birth happens, you spend the rest of your life worrying. I had no idea how true her words were/are.

[Cataholic]

It is a worry, isn't it? I really encourage you to make sure you are doing ALL the AAP reccommends. I had NOTHING in Jonah's crib until he was flipping around. No crib bumpers. No stuffies. No blankets. He slept in a blanket sleeper, with moderate tempatures. I also encourage breastfeeding, as it has shown to be beneficial with SIDS. Quite honestly, since it was nearly a year before he slept through the night, I was so dern tired that if he was sleeping, I was sleeping. To this day, at 18m, I still keep his door to his room opened. (But, I have added a blanket and stuffies. I never did return to the crib bumpers).

Worry is good. Anxiety is not so good. For you, for him, for your family unit.

[Daisy and Delilah]

Welcome to the wonderful world of parenthood hon A good parent never stops worrying!! My kids are 30 and 33 and I'll never stop worrying about them as long as I live