What would you do?

[finn's mom]

Thanks once again for all the words of advice.

I just talked to him, (via IM, I know it's probably not a good way to communicate about something like this but it was the only way as we are both at work lol). Anyways he is ok with it, or so he says & he seems like he is the understanding type, lets just hope it doesn't change once I see him in person. I don't think it will but you never know.
Our date for the weekend is on no matter what, even if my friend is still at my house.


I was going to ask him to come over so that all of us could be together but I honestly doubt my friend would be up for it. She is pretty sick with a UTI that has most likely turned into a bladder or kidney infection, she just lost her b/f and has no where to stay. It might be a little different if it was just her but her 8 year old daughter is there too. I don't feel comfortable introducing someone I don't know very well to a child, even though he has kids & seems like a great person, I just want to get to know him a little better & make sure it is ok with the kids mom, ya know. I guess I'm just the motherly type person. lol

Thanks again!

I totally agree with you, I was thinking the same thing...I think you did the right thing. Good luck with your friend and her girl...and, enjoy the date this weekend!

[BC_MoM]

A. It sounds like your friend could really use.. a good friend right now. Kudos to you for being such a loyal friend in a tough time like this.