I also need to vent

[Chilli]

Things will get better, you just wait!
I had a horrid "friend". Its not even funny how she made me feel. We used to be so close that you couldn't seperate us. And then I became friends with another girl and I introduced the two. Well, now if we're all in a group together, I'm left out as my old friend completely ignores me most of the time as she gives all her attention to my other friend. And if I tell her that I'm feeling left out, she tells me that I "don't always have to be the center of attention"... its really sad because I had helped her through so much, like her parents getting divorced. (this was all last year)
And that year I went through a major depression stage (my grandmum died and all of my family was fighting, my father lost his job due to downsizing, and thats only half of it). I started cutting (which I still do...a little) and attempted suicide (twice). I really don't see how I made it through that year... but now I'm glad I did.
I dropped that friend. And my life is so much better. I've made some new friends, real friends. I just had to give it time.
And you have the right to feel upset, but you shouldn't feel bad. You deserve better if she treats you so horrid.

EDIT// sorry this was so long... I know you didn't want to hear me complain about last year. Thats actually the first time I told anyone about some of that stuff.

[dab_20]

Things will get better, you just wait!
I had a horrid "friend". Its not even funny how she made me feel. We used to be so close that you couldn't seperate us. And then I became friends with another girl and I introduced the two. Well, now if we're all in a group together, I'm left out as my old friend completely ignores me most of the time as she gives all her attention to my other friend. And if I tell her that I'm feeling left out, she tells me that I "don't always have to be the center of attention"... its really sad because I had helped her through so much, like her parents getting divorced. (this was all last year)
And that year I went through a major depression stage (my grandmum died and all of my family was fighting, my father lost his job due to downsizing, and thats only half of it). I started cutting (which I still do...a little) and attempted suicide (twice). I really don't see how I made it through that year... but now I'm glad I did.
I dropped that friend. And my life is so much better. I've made some new friends, real friends. I just had to give it time.
And you have the right to feel upset, but you shouldn't feel bad. You deserve better if she treats you so horrid.

EDIT// sorry this was so long... I know you didn't want to hear me complain about last year. Thats actually the first time I told anyone about some of that stuff.

OMG It sounds like you had a horrible year! I'm so sorry you had such a hard time. This is the reason I hate me feeling bad for myself... some people have it harder. Like you! I'm sorry and I hope you feel better now.

And Jessika, your right. That's kind of what Kayla is like.

Thanks for the replies everyone. It's nice to know your not the only one who goes through this stuff.

[Chilli]

Don't feel bad about feeling bad for yourself! Its part of being human!

[jackie]

Wow, that would make me feel really sad too, but the bright side is that now you know what kind of person she is.

If one of my friends said something so hurtful and rude, I would never want to speak to them again. You deserve better friends then that.

[moosmom]

She said me and her and our other friends won't be friends in high school because she's becoming popular. She won't hang out with us because it ruins her 'self image'.

Is this girl for REAL??? She needs to get over herself real quick!! Who the hell does she think she is?? Paris Hilton?? PUHLEEEEZE!!!

She's a snot and does NOT deserve your friendship.

[Muddy4paws]

Is this girl for REAL??? She needs to get over herself real quick!! Who the hell does she think she is?? Paris Hilton?? PUHLEEEEZE!!!

She's a snot and does NOT deserve your friendship.

Well said!

Seriously I just wouldnt bother with her, She cant treat people like that so dont let yourself feel bad shes the one who needs some sense put in her

[dab_20]

I agree. Thanks.