I hope your labor isn't to bad. I confess I can't relate, but from one I've heard epideral is definately a word to remember!!

Mau is like that she can't stand MC. When I first brought him home I had her attacking and him peeing all over the place. The vet prescribed some kitty valium for him to help with the spraying and I put her in a room on her own when I wasn't home and only let them wander around when I was. I also usually kept a water bottle around in case I heard anything. It took awhile and I still keep her locked in a seperate room when I'm not home which she's fine with since she's left alone and has a cushy bed, but it's no longer a necessity. They've learned to tolerate eachother. He's stopped spraying and although she hisses they usually just walk by eachother.