Uppiedate - I'm STILL pregnant & Connor is hurt again

[icedtea]

good luckwith your cat problems. i hope things blow over.

[pnance]

I hope your labor isn't to bad. I confess I can't relate, but from one I've heard epideral is definately a word to remember!!

Mau is like that she can't stand MC. When I first brought him home I had her attacking and him peeing all over the place. The vet prescribed some kitty valium for him to help with the spraying and I put her in a room on her own when I wasn't home and only let them wander around when I was. I also usually kept a water bottle around in case I heard anything. It took awhile and I still keep her locked in a seperate room when I'm not home which she's fine with since she's left alone and has a cushy bed, but it's no longer a necessity. They've learned to tolerate eachother. He's stopped spraying and although she hisses they usually just walk by eachother.

[AbbyMom]

I'm glad Connor's OK now.

My two cats have had serious fights in the past, although they seem to be doing OK now.

On this forum I once saw a posting about both Feliway and Rescue Remedy as calmatives for cats. I know the Feliway works for my fosters, but it's limited to a single room and expensive.

I have recently purchased Rescue Remedy in case my cats start going at it again so I can give it a try.

The thing about Rescue Remedy is that you can put it in their water...convenient. It's supposed to help with aggressiveness, jealousy, and possessiveness. Sounds like it could help you.

Perhaps somebody else here can testify as to how well it works. I'm sure you could order it from off the Internet.

Good luck. Hope that baby comes soon!

[Felicia's Mom]

I hope you works things out. Felicia has never liked Beau, but they haven't hurt each other.

[momcat]

My grandmother always used to say the baby comes when the baby wants to come. Don't worry, she'll be here before you know it! My son was born 6 weeks premature. At the time we had a Scotty dog, everyone said we were going to have all kinds of problems with the dog once the baby came. The day we brought our baby home from the hospital, I sat with him on the floor & the dog came over. As the dog sniffed at the baby, I told him Michael was part of the family just like he was and I'd need his help taking care of the baby. From the start there were no problems and as Michael grew they were best friends. Maybe something like that would help with Ally, assure her that she's not being replaced and you'll need her to help out a bit.