Poor little Flutter! I hope she's recovered today Kudos to your husband for yelling at the girls, maybe it'll teach them not to have the boys back over. For the most part our friends are nice enough to our cats but one time one of our friends pushed our cat off a chair just so he could sit there (he just literally pushed her off and there were like 3 other empty chairs!) I let him have it good. It was nothing to do with his age but lack of respect for animals and other people's pets.