Well, what about about Basset Hound? These dogs are so effectionate and gentle.Another chioce could be a Samoyed. They are bigger dogs, so of course, bigger dogs are gonna push in a way that bigger dogs push.But our friend had one and she said that they were so gentle with her little newborn,that it would stand right next to the child to protect her from any more harm.And that they were very effectionate. I hope this helps!