In depair but I know I can confide in PT

[catnapper]

I'm sorry to hear this is the route she chose.

Lets hope you can get some sense into her so that there will never ever be a "next time"

PS:

Hope this doesn't sound heartless but there is no way I'd even consider that. I don't want any more children and am certainly not going to give up my "freedom" because it wouldn't be her Dad looking after baby.....it would be down to me

I missed this earlier. I agree myself. If I wanted a baby fulltime in my life right now, I'd have married another man who could give me one. I have freely admitted many times that I am too selfish to be a mother to a baby. I will eagerly be a grandmother, but one to a baby who eventually goes home with mom and dad!

[Corinna]

I would strongly suggest she has a her tubes tied while she is killing her baby so it doesn't happen again. So another poor child whos genuius ,could bethe one who goes to school and finds a cure for some horrable disease.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I would strongly suggest she has a her tubes tied while she is killing her baby so it doesn't happen again.

Believe me, this has been pointed out to her!

[JenBKR]

I am also sorry that this is the route she has choosen. (((hugs))) to you and your husband.