It's over.

[catnapper]

Well, you knew it wasn't right, but you tried anyway. Who can fault you for trying? You shold never ever kick yourself for following your heart. Some day you'll find the right man who makes your heart swoon and you'll know without a doubt that he's good for you. With this guy you saw someone who made your heart swoon while your instincts sent off warning bells.... look out for that one next time and remember this moment so you won't repeat it.

Chalk it up as a learning experience and you'll know netter next time!

As for the party, go by yourself and enjoy yourself as a single girl. You just might find someone else there who deserves you!

[animal_rescue]

Sweetie! *hugs* I'm so sorry that happened to you, guys are jerks!!

Actually, that just happened to me on Thursday... only I've been friend dating him for 10 months before he told me he didn't want a relationship with me..

[kuhio98]

What catnapper said. Dating is like trying on people to see if they fit. He didn't fit. No problem. Good to know now instead of a year from now after you've wasted more time.

It's kind of like when you see some great jeans. They look beautiful hanging on the rack but when you try them on, they just don't feel right. You could buy them anyway, and you'd wear them, but they never would be comfortable.

Go to the party. Have fun. When friends ask you, just tell them that you guys decided to just be friends. It sounds like he just realized before you did (even though your instincts were telling you that something wasn't right) that you guys just don't fit. Handle yourself with calm composure. Another guy you're interested in may be at the party.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

What catnapper said. Dating is like trying on people to see if they fit. He didn't fit. No problem. Good to know now instead of a year from now after you've wasted more time.

It's kind of like when you see some great jeans. They look beautiful hanging on the rack but when you try them on, they just don't feel right. You could buy them anyway, and you'd wear them, but they never would be comfortable.

Go to the party. Have fun. When friends ask you, just tell them that you guys decided to just be friends. It sounds like he just realized before you did (even though your instincts were telling you that something wasn't right) that you guys just don't fit. Handle yourself with calm composure. Another guy you're interested in may be at the party.

I realized everything you guys said last night. We were dating for... 3ish weeks? We hadn't kissed yet, and we just seemed more like friends. Joking, play fighting, just brother sister type stuff.

I just don't want to dwell on it. The way I look at it, at least we still have our friendship. Neither of us took it hard, we're gonna be friends. It's okay, I'm okay, I'll move on. Like I said, we hadn't even kissed, and I'm sort of glad we didn't because it would have been harder to split that way.

I'm fine now. I was sad before because actually, I had just finished making his Valentine's Day card when I saw he had signed on. Talk about IRONY! Lmao.

My plan is to enjoy myself tonight. I'm going to have a great time. We'll be friends like we used to be. There's someone better out there for me, I know it.

I love you guys.

[Almita]

Thanks good that everything is ok! At least you two were like best friends when going out that must've been fun that is how it is with my friend and I we act like we are brothers but everyone thinks we are going out They need to know the difference lol but its all cool.