In depair but I know I can confide in PT

[moosmom]

I'm at a loss for words. At 27, and 5 kids later you'd think she'd learn. Some don't. I would definitely encourage adoption. As everyone here has said, there are MANY people who want children so badly but can't have them. My cousin wants to adopt again (she adopted a little boy, Michael, from the Ukraine) but it's taking forever because it's a foreign adoption.

I wish I knew what else to say. I know how difficult it must be when she's your husband's kid. Sometimes ya just gotta stand there and bite your tongue. It's hard to do.

((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) and TONS of support from all of us, sweetie!!

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Sounds silly, I know but you could be the step mum to the next genius of the world

Her 8 year old daughter is very bright but I am scared she will get dragged down too

At 27, and 5 kids later you'd think she'd learn

Just two kids (so far) and two terminations - doesn't really make it any better does it?



From what I can gather from her Dad adoption is not an option as far as she is concerned. Have sent her details of an organisation called CARE who are trained in counselling for unplanned pregnancies and the options available. At least she can be honest with whoever is on the other end of the phone (or she will be if she has any sense....which is a debatable issue )